Тема семейные отношения на английском языке. Family Relationships – Семейные отношения. Фразы и словосочетания, которые помогут описать род занятий родственников

Topic: Importance of family

Тема: важность семьи

Nowadays people don"t pay much attention to their families. Often they prefer a successful career, travels and much more to starting of family. Is family still important? Can people live without it?

В настоящее время люди не уделяют много внимания своим семьям. Часто они предпочитают успешную карьеру, путешествия и многое другое нежели заводить собственную семью. Семья все еще важна? Могут ли люди жить без этого?

In my opinion, family is the most valuable thing that people have.

На мой взгляд, семья - это самое ценное, что есть у людей.

Firstly family is the first school a baby enters in this merciless and cruel world. A newborn child for the first time hears his or her first language, learns to understand and speak it. Relatives help us to take the first small steps. We acquire skills necessary for our live. Also family is responsible for quick and proper physical and mental development of a child. It’s a fact, that kids who have grown up , develop slower and often have problems at every turn and twist of their future life.

Во-первых, семья - это первая школа, в которую входит ребенок в этом безжалостном и жестоком мире. Там мы отождествляемся с окружающим миром и получаем наши первые уроки. Новорожденный ребенок впервые слышит свой первый язык, учится понимать и говорить на нем. Родственники помогают нам делать первые небольшие шаги. Мы приобретаем навыки, необходимые для нашей жизни. Также семья несет ответственность за быстрое и правильное физическое и умственное развитие ребенка. Это факт, что дети, которые выросли в детском доме, развиваются медленнее, и у них часто возникают проблемы на каждом шагу и повороте их будущей жизни.

Secondly family is the most important force that assumes responsibility for character formation. Every family has a set of values that determines our behavior, gives expression to beliefs and gives meaning to our everyday life. Moreover we all inherit some qualities from our relatives. Whatever, we learn from our family over the years. They teach us the value of love, affection and care. Family determines to a large extent the social the social roles that children will perform.

Во-вторых, семья является самой важной силой, которая берет на себя ответственность за формирование характера. Каждая семья имеет набор ценностей, которые определяют наше поведение, выражают убеждения и придают смысл нашей повседневной жизни. Кроме того, мы все наследуем некоторые качества от наших родственников. Как бы то ни было, мы учимся у своей семьи на протяжении многих лет. Они учат нас ценности любви, привязанности и заботы. Семья в значительной степени определяет социальную роль, которую выполняют дети.

Thirdly, family provides us with tools necessary for getting a success in our life. They help us to building career. Relatives give us valuable knowledge about different career prospectives. Also they help us to choose one’s own path in life, give us financial support. Family’s interests, skills, goals and family"s members’ education predetermine our future life. For instance those children who belong to the families which have a rich education background tend to learn more.

В-третьих, семья предоставляет нам инструменты, необходимые для достижения успеха в нашей жизни. Они помогают нам строить карьеру. Родственники дают нам ценные знания о различных перспективах карьерного роста. Также они помогают нам выбрать свой собственный жизненный путь, оказать нам финансовую поддержку. Интересы, навыки, цели и образование членов семьи предопределяют нашу будущую жизнь. Например, те дети, которые принадлежат к семьям с богатым образованием, склонны больше учиться.

Besides, family is a place where you can be yourself, where you are accepted for what\which you are. This is where you are completely tension free and everyone is there to provide comfort, emotional support, nurturing and the warmth of affection and tenderness. Relatives help us to survive through tough times and bring joy and happiness into life. Families bond together make each member feel important and instill trust belief in ourselves. They are ready to help us and to do everything for us.

Кроме того, семья - это место, где вы можете быть самим собой, где вас принимают за то, чем вы являетесь. Здесь вы полностью свободны от напряжения, и все здесь, чтобы обеспечить комфорт, эмоциональную поддержку, заботу и теплоту привязанности и нежности. Родственники помогают нам выжить в трудные времена и принести радость и счастье в жизнь. Семьи связывают друг друга, чтобы каждый член чувствовал себя важным и внушал доверие к себе. Они готовы помочь нам и сделать для нас все.

The family is very important as a unit in our society. Nothing else but family can be an emotional center of people’s life, can be a transmitter of culture and raising children. Every mother feels great affection for her children and tries to bring them up in a proper way. Understanding between the members of the family and consideration for others are very important in family relationship. Tenderness, warm-heartedness and respect must always be present in the family to make it friendly. A lot of activities help members of the family to be on friendly terms: discussing all the family plans together, going on trips hikes together, visiting museums, theaters, exhibitions and exchanging opinions about them, sharing the same joys and sorrows. If you think of the others in the family you show your love and attention in everyday life, you can hurt them if you are selfish, not sincere and rude. It is very important to visit relatives on holidays, on birthdays, on anniversaries and develop close relationship. We feel more affection for our relatives when we are parted from them. The proverb says, » /Absence makes the heart grow fonder». When the family is friendly, everybody has the warmed feelings of returning home where dear relatives are waiting for them. There are different opinions on how children should be treated if they disobey their parents, break the rules, do forbidden things, don’t keep their words or promises. Some people think that parents should be patient, kind and understanding. The rules and children’s behaviors are discussed in such families. But others believe that children ought always to obey the parents and if they won’t they should be punished. From my point of view, such principles won’t do a lot of good. Fear and punishment will lead to selfishness, cruelty and lies. But «love and kindness will save the world». We are the family of two. I live with my mother. We don’t have such problems as misunderstanding between the members of the family. I think that it is due to the age of my parents and their character. My mother is 40 years old, she is layer. She is a kind, clever and responsible woman. My mother always ready to give me necessary information, moral support and a good advice. It is common knowledge that there is no place like a home. We are dedicated to our homes, we give them much love, care and enthusiasm. A man’s house is his castle. I like my home and I want to tell you more about it. I live in Kuprijanov st. in center of our city. We moved into this flat several years ago. Now it is a place where I feel it ease and enjoy every minute of my stay there. We have a washing-machine, a vacuum cleaner, a refrigerator, a freezer, hand-mixer, computer and other things which I consider to be quite necessary as they make our life easier and help to solve a lot of problems in the shortest possible time. We have 2 rooms, a kitchen and a bathroom. When you drop into our flat you come into a lobby, where you can take off your coat, shoes and hat. I’m very happy to have a room for myself, where I feel quite and comfortable. It is a place where I can relax, read a book and listen to music. There are yellow blinds and a writing table, a sofa, a bookcase where my favorite books are situated. There are a lot of things in my room which can tell about myself, about my friends and relatives. You can find frames with photos of my parents and best friends on the walls, little pictures. They remind me happy moments of my life and that is why are very dear for me. You may be surprised, but the most popular and favorite place with all of us is the kitchen. Every Sunday my mother makes a cake and we gather together, discuss our problems and make plans for the next week. Our kitchen isn’t large and looks the usual modern kitchen you can see in many other homes. I can tell a lot about my home, but to make a long story short I can say, that speaking about my home, I don’t mean a flat as it is , I mean people, who are dear to me, who love me and are always waiting for me. That is why, wherever I were I would always hurry home.

Everyone says that youth is probably the best time of our life - that being young means love, friendship and romance, new discoveries and so on. But it is also the most difficult time for making some very important decisions which will have influence on all our life. Our time is not the easiest even for adults, but for teenagers who are to find own place in the society, is very difficult, that`s why parents must help their children solve youth problems and children should be a good and positive example for them showing how it is important to treat other people with respect. I think that all these can really help construct good relationship between parents and children.

But in our modern life there is often a lack of communication between parents and their children. Lack of the love and attention to children can make them unhappy. One can simply open the daily newspaper to find teenagers committing suicide or various crimes due to stress derived from family issues. These incidents reveal the importance of parents` communication with their children. Love for their children is within every parent, which is frequently revealed through the concern they show. But superfluous control can not in the best way influence on child. Often children at school or in the street begin mock at this child. Call him nondependent. In result of this pressure child lose his temper and starts be rude, closed. I think parents should not all the time control their children. Sometimes they have to allow freedom.

As for me, I get on very well with my parents. Whenever I have problems with my friends or with or with my schoolwork, I know they are always there to listen and give advice. They have taught me a lot. They have got a lot of experience and they have always happy to share their knowledge with me. But sometimes my Mum and Dad seem to think I`m still a kid. When I go out with friends, I always have to be back home by ten o`clock and they call me on my mobile to check where I am. I have to ask permission for almost everything I do. It doesn`t seem fair sometimes but I anyway love my parents very much and I think they are the kindest in the whole world.

In conclusion, the ability to solve or avoid family problems depends on children and parents. If the relationship between parents and children is based on love, mutual respect, and kindness, the family will be happy.

Перевод:

Все говорят, что молодость, вероятно, самое лучшее время нашей жизни. Молодость - это любовь, дружба, романтика, новые открытия и т.д. Но это также самое трудное время для принятия очень важныхрешений, которые повлияют на всю нашу жизнь. Наше время не простое даже для взрослых, не говоря уже и о подростках, которые должны найти свое место в обществе, (а это очень сложно). Именно поэтому родители должны помогать своим детям решать трудные вопросы, а дети должны быть хорошим и положительным примером для них, показывая, как важно относиться к другим людям с уважением. Я думаю, что все это может действительно помочь построить хорошие отношения между родителями и детьми.

Но в современной жизни существует проблема недостатка общения между родителями и детьми. Недостаток любви и внимания к детям может сделать их несчастными. Можно просто открыть ежедневную газету и найти статьи о том, как подростки кончают жизнь самоубийством, или статьи о том, как подростки совершают преступления из-за стресса, полученного в семье. Эти инциденты показывают важность общения родителей со своими детьми. Любовь к своим детям, которая существует в пределах каждого родителя, часто раскрывается через беспокойство к своему ребёнку. Но чрезмерный контроль может повлиять не самым лучшим способом на ребенка. Часто дети в школе или на улице начинают издеваться над ребенком, который подвержен излишнему вниманию родителей. Называют его несамостоятельным. В результате этого давления ребенок сердиться, становится грубым замкнутым. Я думаю, что родители не должны все время контролировать своих детей. Иногда они должны обеспечить свободу.

В заключение хотелось бы сказать, что способность решать или избегать проблемы в семье зависит как от родителей, так и от детей. Если отношения между родителями и детьми, основаны на любви, взаимном уважении, и доброте, семья будет счастлива.

Шлиенкова Юлия

• what family relations can be between the members of the family, why
  
• whether it is good to be an only child, why
• a generation gap and its reasons
• your relations with your family members

Families come in all shapes and sizes nowadays. At present more and more families are divorced and then they remarry. That"s why more children have step-brothers, step-sisters, half-brothers and half-sisters. No wonder that there can be some problems in the family relations. Members of many families suffer from misunderstanding because there is a great difference in their tastes and opinions. Besides, children don"t like it when there is too much control from their parents because they want to solve their problems independently. On the other hand, if the members of the family love each other there can be no or little argument and the family lives happily.

Some families have only one child nowadays and others have two, three or even more children. In my opinion, both kinds of families have some advantages and disadvantages. On the other hand, if you are an only child in a family, you don"t have to share your room with anybody else. What is more, your parents give all their love and care only to you. On the other hand, if you have a brother or a sister, you have some to play with or to talk to, and you"ll never feel bored. Furthermore, if you get into trouble, you have someone to help you or give some advice. As for me, I"m an only child in my family, but I think that having a brother or a sister is an amazing feeling, because you know that you won"t be lonely in any case and you have someone to share your thoughts and feelings.

There are a lot of problems and conflicts that appear between teenagers and their parents because because they don"t understand each other. Generation gap will always exist not only because teenagers and their parents enjoy listening to different kinds of music. A lot of things are different: tastes, manners, behaviour and the stuff like that. Some parents don"t want to understand modern views, ideals and system of values so teens are afraid to tell them about their private life. Another reason for the generation gap, in my opinion, is that parents want their children to be clever and learn harder. They are always nagging when their children do badly at school. They make teens do their homework, though sometimes it is unnecessary. Parents don"t want to understand that there can be more important things than good marks in the school-leaving certificate. I believe it is necessary to bridge the generation gap and the only way to do it is for parents and children to speak frankly to each other and try to come to an agreement.

As for me, although I"m an only child, I don"t feel lonely because my parents always love and take care of me. What is more, we often discuss my problems together. Of course, sometimes I have arguments with my family but despite all our disagreements we always help each other. Everyone in my family is my best friend and I love my family very much.

QUESTIONS

1. Why are family relations so important for us?
2. How many children would you like to have in the future? Why?
3. Do you have any problems in your family? Why?
4. Do your relatives help you to solve your problems?
5. Do you always follow your parents" advice? Why?

The family is very important as a unit in our society. Nothing else but family can be an emotional center of people"s life, can be a transmitter of culture and raising children. Every mother feels great affection for her children and tries to bring them up in a proper way.

Understanding between the members of the family and consideration for others are very important in family relationship. Tenderness, warm-heartedness and respect must always be present in the family to make it friendly. A lot of activities help members of the family to be on friendly terms: discussing all the family plans together, going on trips hikes together, visiting museums, theaters, exhibitions and exchanging opinions about them, sharing the same joys and sorrows.

If you think of the others in the family you show your love and attention in everyday life, you can hurt them if you are selfish, not sincere and rude. It is very important to visit relatives on holidays, on birthdays, on anniversaries and develop close relationship. We feel more affection for our relatives when we are parted from them. The proverb says, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". When the family is friendly, everybody has the warmed feelings of returning home where dear relatives are waiting for them.

There are different opinions on how children should be treated if they disobey their parents, break the rules, do forbidden things, don"t keep their words or promises. Some people think that parents should be patient, kind and understanding. The rules and children"s behaviors are discussed in such families. But others believe that children ought always to obey the parents and if they won"t they should be punished. From my point of view, such principles won"t do a lot of good. Fear and punishment will lead to selfishness, cruelty and lies. But "love and kindness will save the world".

We are the family of two. I live with my mother. We don"t have such problems as misunderstanding between the members of the family. I think that it is due to the age of my parents and their character.

My mother is 40 years old. She is a kind, clever and responsible woman. My mother always ready to give me necessary information, moral support and a good advice.

It is common knowledge that there is no place like a home. We are dedicated to our homes, we give them much love, care and enthusiasm. A man"s house is his castle. I like my home and I want to tell you more about it.

I live in Kuprijanov st. in the center of our city. We moved into this flat several years ago. Now it is a place where I feel it ease and enjoy every minute of my stay there. We have a washing-machine, a vacuum cleaner, a refrigerator, a freezer, hand-mixer, computer and other things which I consider to be quite necessary as they make our life easier and help to solve a lot of problems in the shortest possible time.

We have 2 rooms, a kitchen and a bathroom. When you drop into our flat you come into a lobby, where you can take off your coat, shoes and hat. I"m very happy to have a room for myself, where I feel quite and comfortable. It is a place where I can relax, read a book and listen to music. There are yellow blinds and a writing table, a sofa, a bookcase where my favorite books are situated.

There are a lot of things in my room which can tell about myself, about my friends and relatives. You can find frames with photos of my parents and best friends on the walls, little pictures. They remind me happy moments of my life and that is why are very dear for me.

You may be surprised, but the most popular and favorite place with all of us is the kitchen. Every Sunday my mother makes a cake and we gather together, discuss our problems and make plans for the next week.

I can tell a lot about my home, but to make a long story short I can say, that speaking about my home, I don"t mean a flat as it is, I mean people, who are dear to me, who love me and are always waiting for me. That is why, wherever I were I would always hurry home.